Daddy's 1st Father's Day!

Wow, sorry for the lag in posts lately. I'm finally getting around to posting about father's day and such! Thank goodness for days off, right!?

Father's day for Eric was not just a day but an entire weekend filled with fun with friends and family, love from his baby girl and wife, delicious & nutritious meals, and some much needed and well deserved rest & relaxation!
We went boating with some of Eric's friends on Saturday. We had a blast and Ava survived the whole day without getting grumpy! Yay! I was worried that without her afternoon nap she would become a monster by the end of the day, but she did fantastic. She is always totally content watching people and taking in her environment, which seems to keep her a very happy baby! Eric took his jetski along too and played on the lake like a little kid. He does love his toys. ;) On Sunday, Eric got his real father's day pampering with a huge brunch of his favorite dippy eggs, thick sliced bacon, and whole wheat toast with homemade strawberry jam. Oh, and Ava conveniently decided to sleep in til 8:00 or so as well ... which just made our day! :)
To show our appreciation for Eric's awesomeness as a daddy, we got him what every man needs--a new grill. Ava picked it out, heehee. So, we had a dee-licious dinner for father's day as well complete with filet mignon--perfectly seared on daddy's new grill ;) , corn on the cob, grilled lemon butter asparagus, caprese salad, and some of the best carrot cake Eric & I have ever tasted!
Now, my real dedication to Eric on father's day was expressing my gratitude and appreciation to him for being a truly fantastic, devoted, caring, loving father to our daughter and husband to me. I appreciate the love that he showers our daughter with and the support he provides to me. There is nothing like having that pillar of light in your family to lean on for support, seek out for advice, and rely on to pick you up when you are down. First father's days are always the most special. O:-)

Biter Biscuits, Mango Pops, and a Mischevious Baby!

I bought these vanilla flavored teething biscuits this week, and since Ava has been gnawing away on everything from her spoon to her bottle nipple I thought she might like these little treats. I gave her one the other night while I was making dinner. She was totally silent, just gumming away on the biscuits...then I turned around and saw what a lovely mess these things make! I completely forgot that they would be messy--hence, no bib on the baby:) She loved the biscuit and I loved looking at her messy little face and hands. Who gets joy out of a messy baby--that would be me! :) However, next time I will remove her clothing!

She's also really been into these mesh fruit feeder thingamajigs lately. We've been putting ice cubes in them and she just goes to town! I put a piece of frozen pureed mango in it this time. She thought she liked it at first ....

Still liking it...the mango hasn't quite melted enough to get the full effect yet ...

...and then BAM! Looks like mangoes are a little sour ... :)

Okay, this little girl finds the strangest places to "shimmy" into. The other day she shimmied herself under her crib while I was hanging her clothes up in her closet. I turn around and she's gone. I thought,"Now where in the world did she go!?" Then I see one of her blankets being pulled under the crib...I crouch down on the floor and peak under the crib to see her bright smiley face looking back at me. Goofball. So today, I sat her down in the living room to play while I unloaded the dishwasher. I come in the room and again she's nowhere to be found. "Aaava, where are you my little munchkin?" She hears my voice, gets excited, and starts slapping the hardwood floor like she loves to do. Sure enough, I peak over behind the couch and there she is. Now honestly, you choose the strangest places to explore! What a little monkey!! Gonna have to keep a close eye on this one ;) Good thing she's not crawling yet...although one would think by the way she gets around that she must be!! The funny thing is, she goes backwards everywhere!

Busy Week!

I've been off work since last Friday but these last 5 days have flown by! It's amazing how fast time goes when your days are filled with playtime, naps, and lots of eating! Eric has been in Indianapolis since last Friday as well...sort of unexpectedly. He and a couple other guys (well, his dad & uncle) are working for some Indy car team (don't know the details)...it sounds like they are repainting one or a couple of the Indy car garages. He is in heaven--being the huge race fan that he is! Anyway, I say "unexpectedly" because he thought he was going to be home on Sunday, but due to weather and other circumstances he won't be coming home until tomorrow sometime. SO, Ava & I have gotten some serious mommy-daughter time!! Since she's getting older she is also getting easier to entertain, which makes Eric's out of town trips go a little smoother... and I can maintain my sanity for longer periods. :) Not saying I won't be due for a nice day out with adults though when he gets home!

We spent one day at the pool--which Ava loved. Not so much the outdoor pool because the water was FREEZING--she put one little toe in that water and clung to me for her dear life!! So we went indoors where the water was much more pleasant. There were kids all over the place--there is no doubt that Ava loves watching little kids play...or do nothing at all for that matter.

We went to my cousin's graduation party on Saturday where Ava's stranger anxiety was tested out. She is a momma's girl, that was clear, but was pretty quick to warm up to everyone. I brought my niece home with us to have a 'girl's night' and watch Strawberry Shortcake movies and eat lots of popcorn. We had a blast--Torie even offered to take a bath with Ava.

Sunday was my grocery shopping day--have I ever mentioned how much I despise grocery shopping these days. Ugh. Maybe it's the hauling of all the groceries into the house and putting them away that I really despise, but either way Lord knows I can't leave the job to my husband--we'll be eating cream puffs and bratwursts for weeks if I do. (Love ya, hun:) Sunday was also my baby food making day. Ava's trying some new foods this week... Mangos & Apples :) I don't know why it has taken me this long to give her apples--I think I forgot about them--anyway, they pureed nicely and she had some for lunch today--gobbled them right up! She's been a wimpy formula eater for the past week or so, too. Not sure what that's about, but she drinks about 3-4 ounces and pushes the bottle away. When I set her in the highchair she gets so excited and eats up whatever food I have for her. I always offer her the bottle first but haven't gotten her to take the whole 6 oz for a few days now. Who knows... I suppose she's healthy and growing--I take one look at her chubby thighs and know that much is true!

Well, that's what we've been up to for the past couple days. Here are some pics--enjoy!

Gardening

We planted our first garden yesterday!! Let's see...we planted lettuce, broccoli, tomatoes, peppers, watermelon, cantaloupe, green beans, eggplant, zucchini, sugar snap peas, carrots, a MILLION ONIONS, pumpkins, potatoes, and green onions... I think that's it? Still need to plant butternut squash, asparagus, and sweet potatoes as well!! We are looking forward to freezing a bunch of veggies and making some delicious salsa, tomato soup, and pasta sauce later this summer. I'll tell you...planting a garden is harder than it looks. :) My sister and I have decided that gardening is the reason our mom always stayed so thin when we were growing up--its a serious workout! Here are some pictures of the hard working bunch (remember, I was the photographer, so although these folks are the only ones pictured here they didn't do ALL the work! haha) ... enjoy!


Dale & Max tilling the ground.


Max hammering stakes into the ground.


Torie--ready to garden with her Dora gardening gloves!


First row done ...


Torie keeping Ava entertained.


Ava was a TROOPER all day--perfectly content playing in that pack-n-play!


Hard-working couple.


Okay, so she traded in the gardening gloves for a princess dress.


Putting the older boys to work ... they were thrilled :)



Getting advice from the expert-- Mom. :)

The Simple Things in Life

In the evenings, after Ava goes down for the night, Eric and I find the most serenity in sitting on our front patio...we like listening to the fountain splashing in the water garden and watching our fish Bobby & Chloe (who survived the winter, woohoo!!) swim around. It's our time to relax and unwind from our busy days and do some catching up with one another. We light some citronella candles and bring Portia out with us. The concrete is always nice & warm from the sun shining on it all afternoon. Sometimes there is a nice breeze that picks up the scent of the water mint plant and wafts it in our direction. We can usually hear kids laughing and playing in the distance until the sun completely sets and they go in for the night. There isn't much traffic... just a couple people out walking their dogs. Lately, we've been frequented with a visitor during our evening patio rendezvous. A noisy little critter--we call him Tommy. Tommy is a toad who has found his way to our water garden and has decided to stick around...at least until after mating season is over. He sits out there on the rocks faithfully every night ... making his mating call ... waiting on his own rendezvous with a lady toad. It's pretty entertaining--he hops in the water occasionally and swims a lap or two--then hops back onto his favorite rock and starts doing his throaty call again. We love it ... we sit outside almost every night ... it's entertaining to watch these lil critters. I guess we are delighted by the simple things in life. o:)

Fun in the Sun!

A few days ago Eric's mom came to our house to visit and hang out for awhile. Pam, Ava, & I went shopping and found the cutest baby swimming pool...complete with a shade canopy! We couldn't leave Babies R Us without it! I only filled it up with about an inch of water to begin with--just to give Ava something to splash around in. Well then she bent over so far to get her hands in the water that it looked very uncomfortable so I decided to stick her Bumbo seat in the pool and fill it so she could kick her feet and get her hands in the water too. SHE LOVED IT! Enjoy these pictures...it was a blast just watching her splash around and look cute. :)

Happy 7 months Ava!

Gosh, it's been over a week since I last posted--I suppose that shows how busy things are getting around here!! Being outdoors in this lovely weather lately has trumped blogging...but, as a result I have lots to share!

Happy 7 months to our lil peanut first of all! Her little personality is shining brightly these days! This child is all over the place--rolling and scooting that is, no crawling yet! :) She scoots backwards and sideways and shimmys forward to get where she wants to go. Pretty darn cute!! She doesn't quite sit up yet for very long periods at a time. She will sit for a couple minutes-with me close by to break her wobbly fall. She's gettin' there!

Hmm...what else is new with our munchkin. Oh, she is obsessed with tags!! Never met a baby so crazy about the simplest things! As I've said before, she hates binky's but will suck on the tag on her blanket forever. Very funny. When we lay her down for a nap we rock her & she sucks on the tag of her blanket and it puts her right to sleep. Who woulda thought? :)

It's fun to watch the excitment in her eyes when she discovers something new. She scooted off her blanket onto the hardwood floor the other day while she was playing in the living room and discovered that the floor makes a loud noise when she slaps it--so she slapped it over & over & over--then looked up at us and smiled. Ha! She is too cute!!

No teeth yet, either. She loves to eat though (as if you couldn't tell ;)!! She is on a pretty regular schedule...she eats cereal & bananas in the morning, pears at lunch, and usually peas or squash & cereal at dinner. So far so good on food--she eats just about everything! She's a little funny sometimes about green beans but I pureed them a little thicker so I think its the texture that confuses her. I made some peaches today so I'll introduce those next week. And maybe some prunes soon too--her bowels would benefit. :) Still takes her bottle every 3 hrs as well--growing girl!

She babbles up a storm all day long!! I hear da-da in there--but I'm sure she doesn't relate the word with her daddy yet. She babbles to herself in the morning before I go in to get her like she's having a conversation with someone--I just lay there in bed and listen to her...its too cute!

I love how portable she is!! I can take her anywhere and she loves watching everything around her--which keeps her occupied while I get my shopping done and errands ran. She likes to sit in the shopping cart and play with the little toys on her shopping cart cover--but what she REALLY likes to do is chew on the price tags of clothes!

Time for a new car seat for Miss Ava!! I've been doing my homework on these things since I hope to only have to buy one more that will last into her toddler years--these puppies are not cheap!! I think I have it narrowed down to 2. I would love to hear suggestions and/or comments on what others have tried and loved or hated. I have a 4 door car so it has to be somewhat compact, or at least easy to fit in and adjust in my car. Ava is right around 19 1/2 lbs so her infant seat is too itty bitty nowadays! I'm sad but also excitied that she is growing, growing, growing!!

Her hair is getting so thick and long! I can put bows in her hair! YAY!! I hated those headbands because they always left a big dent in her scalp but these bows I got are fantastic!! She leaves them alone, unless she sees the bow in my hand first--then she tries to grab my hand and the bow and stick it in her mouth--of course--everything goes in her mouth :)

She's been sleeping wonderfully at night! We increased her bedtime bottle to 7 ounces and she sleeps like a charm. She usually wakes up around 5:30 or 6--which is entirely too early for momma to get up on her day off :)--so I give her an ounce or two bottle and she falls right back into dreamland until about 7:30 or 8. She takes about 3 naps a day...about 2 to 3 hours apart. Her bedtime is 7:30-7:45pm on my days off and about 8:15-8:30pm on the days I work since I don't get home until 8:00 usually. Moving her bedtime back just a little has helped her sleep better at night as well. One would be amazed at how much better a baby sleeps when she is kept on schedule!

She wears size 12 month clothes and size 4 cruisers--she is rather long for her age!! Ok, and a little chubby--she's got no failure to thrive that's for sure! :)

Well, I think that covers it for this month!! :-)



Lil Stinker ...



Mommy & Ava



"Here's what I look like after mommy takes my bow out of my hair--now I REALLY look like daddy!"



Check out those thighs!! WOW! Man, are they kissable :)



Daddy & Ava



There she goes-- discovering again!! "Daddy, what are those things over your eyes? Let me check them out!!"



Enjoying the awesome weather!



Okay--TURD BIRD! She took her diaper half off after one of her naps--I went in her room and said, "what in the world is this, missy?" and she was literally cracking up laughing. I was in stitches as well...what an ornery booger :)


Rocking away on her new butterfly rocker! She loves it ... the little antennae's on its head are squeakers so she pounds them with her hands and gets all excited! Daddy & Ava named her Maggie :)

My 1st Mother's Day!!

What an absolutely f a n t a s t i c day I had!!! I started the day off by sleeping in! =) Eric got up with Ava when she woke up around 7:45. Of course my eyes always shoot open around this time anyway because typically my morning call is lying in her crib squealing and babbling until I finally roll myself out of bed and go see her bright smiling face. So, wide awake at this point I decided to stay put, relax some more, and twiddle with my new mother's day gift ... a Blackberry ... complete with a sassy pink cover thingamajig! Daddy scored big points for this one!! :) As I laid there, the smell of scrumptious hot cinnamon rolls fresh outta the oven teased my nostrils and tempted my taste buds ... "OOOhh, he's making cinnamon rolls--YUMM-O!!" I jumped out of bed, threw on my robe, and took my chicken-headed hair downstairs to be greeted by my smiley face baby--the littlest girl in the world who makes my heart so happy--and my doting & appreciative husband. These two are it ... they complete my life ... they are my favorite people in the world. I am so blessed to have one happy and loving little family. I slowly savored my breakfast of cinnamon rolls and hazelnut coffee before hopping in the shower. Next on my "Mommy Indulgences" list for the day was an hour and a half massage. Maaann that was just what the doctor ordered! Except for the fact that I had to keep requesting "more pressure please", these muscles are beyond tense my friend, you need to MASSAGE them! Anyway, my last stop was at the fabric store so I could get more fabric to finally finish Ava's baby blanket ... now that she's almost 7 months old. ;) I called Eric to let him know I was making one more stop and would be home. He said, "oh take your time hun, stop at Barnes & Noble for awhile if you want, or go to the greenhouse like you've been wanting to do ... this is your day, just relax" -- and this is why I love him. Of all these things that I could've done with my day, all I really wanted to do was come home and relax with my baby and husband and just do nothing but enjoy one another's company all day--so this is exactly what I did!! I love being a mommy....and I love knowing that I'm appreciated!! Mother's Day is my new favorite day of the year ;)


Flowers & card from daddy ...


Ava's mother's day gift--with a little help from her babysitter ;)



Ava's finger painting masterpiece! Love it ...





Ava baby's blanket that I finally got to finish!! It's so soft and snuggly--and rather big!



Ava of course likes the little bobbly fringe :) Pretty proud of my first finished blanket!!

Nurses Call the Shots

So, I feel like I've settled into a routine with my family...things are going well, a bit more relaxed as we continue to adjust our lives to accommodate our newest addition. I feel good about where my life stands and is heading on the home front. A part of my life that I feel a growing desire to expand in is my career. I want to focus on who I am as a nurse. Nursing has been a huge part of my adult life. I studied the art and science of nursing for four long tedious years in college ... I could not wait to get my foot in the door at THE Ohio State University Medical Center and experience the research and modern advances in medicine and surgery that happen around that place everyday. I looked forward to making a difference in someone's life everyday that I got out of bed and went to work...not just to make a difference, but to be an influence in a stranger's life...a positive influence. A stranger who is counting on me to be on my toes and take care of the life in my hands that happened to be theirs. I couldn't wait to love my career.

Well, here I am--I've been a nurse at the OSU Medical Center for 2 years now. I go to work, do my job, and come home-- stressed-out, run-down, mind-racing, and on-edge. It is a tough job... mentally, emotionally, & physically. My mind does not leave "nurse-mode" once my body enters my home... in fact I typically have dreams about what valuable information I may have forgotten to pass on to the next nurse during shift change or perhaps forgot to chart... a very uncomfortable feeling. It feels like nurses are tied on a lasso, flung around in the air a couple times, and let go--dizzy and discombobulated--and then expected to provide each of our patients with professional, timely, appropriate, thoughtful, and sincere care... all while trying to fix and convey our apologies for miscommunication or complete LACK of communication between physicians and ancillary departments... and don't forget the phone in your pocket is ringing off the hook because the patient in 5B is throwing up, 74B needs pain meds, and your patient is back from xray and the transporter is getting really angry that you haven't come to the room yet, or you have an admission on the way. WHEW!

After all this, I know nursing is the field for me. I want to re-focus my mind now on how to be that special influence in a stranger's life. People are the most vulnerable when they are in the hospital... the last thing they need is a crappy nurse :). Our problems aren't solved by complaining (although it does feel good to vent sometimes!) or with a poor attitude. Sometimes it helps to remind yourself that yes, this job is tough...and it takes a tough person to do the job, but you came into this profession for a reason! For the past year or so I have had other issues on my mind--marriage, baby-making, and being a new mom...but now I'm feeling better than ever about putting my mind and heart into nursing and becoming the most rockin' nurse I can be!!!! Hallelujah to all you Nurses out there ... Happy Nurses Week!!!

BTW, I posted some nursing links on my sidebar...check them out!! I love the nursing blog Code Blog--there are links to other nursing blogs on that site as well. Enjoy :)

New savings website. . .

I just added a new website to my sidebar called "It's Hip 2 Save!" Gooood website, check it out when you have time--I like it a lot! Thanks Sarah! =o)